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What’s in a name?
What’s in a name? That which we call a rose /By any other name would smell as sweet. I can’t say I agree with Miss Capulet on this one. I’m sure if the flower we know as the rose were called … Continue reading
It’s a small world after all
You’ve got the Disney song stuck in your head now, haven’t you? Sorry about that. Yesterday I watched the video of our long-ago trip to Walt Disney World, and I’ve had the tune playing on a mental loop ever since. … Continue reading
Posted in Canada, Identity, Singapore
Tagged adjustment, Canada, culture, expat, identity, memories, Singapore, small world
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Repatriating TCKs: It’s not all sunshine and lollipops
When it became apparent that our family would be moving back to Canada after five years abroad, I set out to prepare my daughters for yet another big change in their lives. I encouraged them to talk about their feelings, … Continue reading
Posted in Adjustment, Identity, Third Culture Kids
Tagged adjustment, Canada, culture, expat, expat life, friends, home, identity, isolation, loneliness, outsider, repatriation, TCKs, Third Culture Kids
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Sh*t Expat Women Say
I am an expert procrastinator. I have four articles due on Thursday and another four due next week. So how did I spend my weekend? Watching “Shit X Say” videos on YouTube. Unless you’ve been living in a cave somewhere, … Continue reading
Missing the Parade of Nations this UN Day
UN Day just isn’t the same without the Parade of Nations. Today, October 24th, marks the 66th anniversary of the ratification of the Charter of the United Nations. I confess I’d never even heard of UN Day until we moved … Continue reading
Posted in Identity, Singapore, Third Culture Kids
Tagged Canadian, culture, expat life, identity, Parade of Nations, Singapore, TCKs, UN Day
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I. Am. Canadian.
July 1st is Canada Day, and tomorrow my homeland will celebrate its 144th birthday. There’s a huge party going on at City Hall, a 10-minute walk away, but I won’t be going — introvert that I am, I can’t stand … Continue reading
Turkish delight
I get lost. A lot. That might not seem like a big deal to you, but as readers who followed my confessional series on the Big Five Personality Traits know, I’m highly neurotic and not particularly open to experience. That … Continue reading
What does expat success mean to you?
My recent series of posts on the Big Five and expat adjustment seemed to strike a chord with readers, and I’ve been mulling over the idea of doing another series exploring some of the non-psychological factors that lead to expat … Continue reading
Maids are mothers, too
For many expat spouses, the decision to employ affordable live-in help is a no-brainer. It frees up a lot of time that would be otherwise spent on household drudgery and childcare — time that could arguably be better spent elsewhere. … Continue reading


