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What my dog taught me about surviving repatriation
I was reading my friend Linda’s recent post about the expat life lessons she learned from her cat Charley, when I realized that I, too, have a pet who possesses a certain Yoda-like wisdom. That beautiful animal in the photo … Continue reading
Posted in Repatriation
Tagged Canada, expat life, friends, home, isolation, Jeff, loneliness, memories, pet, repatriation
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The curse of the comfort zone
Ah, but a man’s reach should exceed his grasp, or what’s a heaven for? Robert Browning When I wear my favourite sweat pants, I feel like I’m encased in a fleecy womb: safe and cozy and warm. They’re so comfortable, … Continue reading
Posted in Identity
Tagged adjustment, Comfort zone, expat, expat life, home, repatriation, Sweatpants
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Repatriating TCKs: It’s not all sunshine and lollipops
When it became apparent that our family would be moving back to Canada after five years abroad, I set out to prepare my daughters for yet another big change in their lives. I encouraged them to talk about their feelings, … Continue reading
Posted in Adjustment, Identity, Third Culture Kids
Tagged adjustment, Canada, culture, expat, expat life, friends, home, identity, isolation, loneliness, outsider, repatriation, TCKs, Third Culture Kids
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Repatriation: 5 mistakes I wish I hadn’t made
Last week’s post was fun; I got to pat myself on the back for doing 5 things right when I repatriated. I’d love to leave you with the impression that I handled it all like a pro, but I made … Continue reading
Posted in Adjustment, Repatriation
Tagged adjustment, brooding, catastrphizing, depression, expat, expatriation, friends, home, isolation, loneliness, re-entry shock, repatriation
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From homecoming to homefeeling: 5 things I did right as a repatriate
Today officially marks the end of the holiday season chez nous: Chef Boyardee is back at work, Younger and Elder Daughters are back at school, and Jeff and I are once again alone in a very quiet house. Jeff will … Continue reading
Posted in Adjustment, Repatriation
Tagged adjustment, blogging, Bordeaux, Canada, expat, friends, home, identity, re-entry shock, repatriation
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Surviving repatriation: There is no magic bullet
“What can I do to make repatriation easier?” The woman behind the question was an American expatriate — a friend of a friend of a friend — who was about to return home after three years in Canada. We’d been … Continue reading
Posted in Repatriation
Tagged adjustment, expat, expat life, home, identity, Jo Parfitt, repatriation
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The four seasons
The weather is glorious at the moment. The sun is shining, the air is crisp, and the leaves — all decked out in their autumn finery — are nothing short of spectacular. Walking down the street, breathing in the bracing … Continue reading
Posted in Adjustment, Repatriation
Tagged adjustment, Canada, expat, home, repatriation, seasons, winter
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In my house, even St. Patrick has an identity crisis
Family traditions — or rather, their evolution during expatriation — continue to fascinate me. As expats we often find ourselves in duct tape mode when it comes to maintaining traditions away from home: either we can’t find the necessary elements … Continue reading
Posted in Identity, Repatriation, Singapore
Tagged culture, expat life, identity, repatriation, traditions
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The countdown to the FIGT conference has officially begun!
I somehow managed to make it through my entire expat life without knowing about Families in Global Transition, a grassroots organization that has the back of internationally mobile families from all sectors: corporate, military, mission, academic, diplomatic, and probably a … Continue reading
Panning for gold, repatriate-style
I know, I know — not the most flattering photo of me. But it’s the only one I have from my gold fossicking* expedition somewhere in New South Wales many years ago, and I’m not above a little public humiliation … Continue reading





